<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896</id><updated>2011-07-29T02:30:51.290-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The karate guy said....</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896.post-622512192436736940</id><published>2009-08-14T18:07:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-14T18:54:16.326-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Check out our new clip our promo video</title><content type='html'>This is the introduction to the video.  Rest to be posted soon!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOG_video_class" id="BLOG_video-ce1471b9cd32ea9e" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/get_player"&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="flashvars" value="flvurl=http://v13.nonxt7.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3Dce1471b9cd32ea9e%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1331017859%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D16A5DFEFE6DFFD2F4E38A72D31D2D168AEA1C3CD.2C55431B19CA7D2B79CB538F56B291817BB793DD%26key%3Dck1&amp;amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3Dce1471b9cd32ea9e%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3Dl5STwAsBuwx26J0CrtQvkmLict8&amp;amp;autoplay=0&amp;amp;ps=blogger"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/get_player" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"width="320" height="266" bgcolor="#FFFFFF"flashvars="flvurl=http://v13.nonxt7.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3Dce1471b9cd32ea9e%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1331017859%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D16A5DFEFE6DFFD2F4E38A72D31D2D168AEA1C3CD.2C55431B19CA7D2B79CB538F56B291817BB793DD%26key%3Dck1&amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3Dce1471b9cd32ea9e%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3Dl5STwAsBuwx26J0CrtQvkmLict8&amp;autoplay=0&amp;ps=blogger"allowFullScreen="true" /&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1078869745191263896-622512192436736940?l=friedmankenpo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/622512192436736940'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/622512192436736940'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/08/check-out-our-new-clip-our-promo-video.html' title='Check out our new clip our promo video'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896.post-6992928187904511266</id><published>2009-07-22T20:18:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-22T21:26:44.700-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Womens Self Defense--another bad guy bites the dust!</title><content type='html'>In this video, Stephanie gives new meaning to the saying "make the first shot count". This was the last class in a 6 week series to empower women to take control in these dangerous situations. This class called "beyond intuition" begins again every 8 weeks. The class is held on Tuesday and Thursdays at 7:15 P:M - 8:15 P:M. child care is even provided for! See Jacqui to find out when the next session starts. Lots of fun!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOG_video_class" id="BLOG_video-450b3663f0efa72b" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/get_player"&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="flashvars" value="flvurl=http://v2.nonxt5.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3D450b3663f0efa72b%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1331017859%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D2C403A9B16751357A7B96992ED930283AD3D05E7.2186434C4FA887E726C0AD02DC1A18CC36C825C8%26key%3Dck1&amp;amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3D450b3663f0efa72b%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3Dnco_ewN-bWgTVbAhdyTubghI-2w&amp;amp;autoplay=0&amp;amp;ps=blogger"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/get_player" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"width="320" height="266" bgcolor="#FFFFFF"flashvars="flvurl=http://v2.nonxt5.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3D450b3663f0efa72b%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1331017859%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D2C403A9B16751357A7B96992ED930283AD3D05E7.2186434C4FA887E726C0AD02DC1A18CC36C825C8%26key%3Dck1&amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3D450b3663f0efa72b%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3Dnco_ewN-bWgTVbAhdyTubghI-2w&amp;autoplay=0&amp;ps=blogger"allowFullScreen="true" /&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1078869745191263896-6992928187904511266?l=friedmankenpo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=450b3663f0efa72b&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/6992928187904511266'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/6992928187904511266'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/07/womens-self-defense-another-bad-guy.html' title='Womens Self Defense--another bad guy bites the dust!'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896.post-1468965798682726885</id><published>2009-07-18T23:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-19T10:11:10.308-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Crawford Group Warmups</title><content type='html'>One of the basic warmup drills the guys do. They have progressed alot since they started with me roughly 6 months ago. We focus on high intensity, short duration warmup excercises, foundation drills, sparring and self defense.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Chad and Erik using the Wavemaster&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOG_video_class" id="BLOG_video-31c91f2bc0e22017" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/get_player"&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="flashvars" value="flvurl=http://v5.nonxt4.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3D31c91f2bc0e22017%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1331017859%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D5E14805A6F7D0D52E6009B2CCA5C9DCAF769699D.1DE9F014A9B898E9758FA7C47BF307B272A9F496%26key%3Dck1&amp;amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3D31c91f2bc0e22017%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3DRmOXc9b8NmYDTymYJ9XentPaxO4&amp;amp;autoplay=0&amp;amp;ps=blogger"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/get_player" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"width="320" height="266" bgcolor="#FFFFFF"flashvars="flvurl=http://v5.nonxt4.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3D31c91f2bc0e22017%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1331017859%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D5E14805A6F7D0D52E6009B2CCA5C9DCAF769699D.1DE9F014A9B898E9758FA7C47BF307B272A9F496%26key%3Dck1&amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3D31c91f2bc0e22017%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3DRmOXc9b8NmYDTymYJ9XentPaxO4&amp;autoplay=0&amp;ps=blogger"allowFullScreen="true" /&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1078869745191263896-1468965798682726885?l=friedmankenpo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=31c91f2bc0e22017&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/feeds/1468965798682726885/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/07/crawford-group-warmups.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/1468965798682726885'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/1468965798682726885'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/07/crawford-group-warmups.html' title='Crawford Group Warmups'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896.post-951967722289150760</id><published>2009-06-15T21:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-15T21:25:27.556-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Happy Birthday Mr. Schulte!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SjceV4f6TcI/AAAAAAAAAAc/wWqymIIeFJQ/s1600-h/Picture+001.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5347776443818069442" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SjceV4f6TcI/AAAAAAAAAAc/wWqymIIeFJQ/s320/Picture+001.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Rainer Schulte celebrated his 70th birthday last week at his house with friends and family. I made the trip to his house, and let me tell you what a great time I had. I met up with Michael Miller and his student Jason down from PA. I also made a few new friends from Germany. Andre, Peter, &amp;amp; Thomas were some of Mr. Schulte's original students from when he started teaching way back in the day, and it was the first time I had met Mr. Schulte's wife Bridgette. We all sat around, and ate, drank and just bs'd the night away. It was great! and Mr. Schulte's cooking? let's put it this way....he's in a lot of trouble because I have his address programmed in my gps, and as the saying goes....."I'll be back." &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1078869745191263896-951967722289150760?l=friedmankenpo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/feeds/951967722289150760/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/06/happy-birthday-mr-schulte.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/951967722289150760'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/951967722289150760'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/06/happy-birthday-mr-schulte.html' title='Happy Birthday Mr. Schulte!'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SjceV4f6TcI/AAAAAAAAAAc/wWqymIIeFJQ/s72-c/Picture+001.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896.post-3463387981210980953</id><published>2009-06-01T21:37:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T21:55:34.344-07:00</updated><title type='text'>EAT UP!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SiStwmn1XoI/AAAAAAAAAAU/Bs-qAxGr9u8/s1600-h/Picture+001.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5342586108481199746" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SiStwmn1XoI/AAAAAAAAAAU/Bs-qAxGr9u8/s320/Picture+001.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Close to 175 people packed the Bettye D. Smith Cultural Arts center this past Sunday for food, games, fun, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;camaraderie&lt;/span&gt; and a charity drive for the Guardian Angels.  Food by '&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Smokin&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Joes&lt;/span&gt;' BBQ was fantastic as was the facility and the weather!  After eating, kids had an opportunity to play in the bounce house(thanks to bobby at kingdom &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;kidz&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;paty&lt;/span&gt; games for the donation!)  or partake in one of the many games and activities we had across the street in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;centennial&lt;/span&gt; park.  The kids had a blast with the snow cone machine, and a few lucky adults won some pretty nice prizes from the raffle.  All of the money collected through the raffle is going to the Guardian Angels (&lt;a href="http://www.guardianangels.org/"&gt;www.guardianangels.org&lt;/a&gt;), we collected $800!  We had a great time, and we're looking forward to next year!  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1078869745191263896-3463387981210980953?l=friedmankenpo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/feeds/3463387981210980953/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/06/eat-up.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/3463387981210980953'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/3463387981210980953'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/06/eat-up.html' title='EAT UP!'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SiStwmn1XoI/AAAAAAAAAAU/Bs-qAxGr9u8/s72-c/Picture+001.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896.post-8317271167035236529</id><published>2009-05-10T19:01:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-10T20:08:34.968-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Karate contracts....what's the deal?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Ok&lt;/span&gt;.  Another person apparently duped into signing a 3 year agreement for a 5 year old child?  Check out this story that ran in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;toady's&lt;/span&gt; Orlando Sentinel.  &lt;a href="http://www.orlandosentinel.com/business/orl-subizdawson-column-051009051009may10,0,732400.column"&gt;http://www.orlandosentinel.com/business/orl-subizdawson-column-051009051009may10,0,732400.column&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The problem is not in asking for a commitment from people, but HOW MUCH of a commitment, to WHAT AGE group, and at WHAT STAGE in their training this commitment is asked of someone.  Since this article addresses young children, that is what I will discuss, also because most Karate schools are made up of mainly adolescents.  There is another discussion which should be had for adults signing agreements, but that is for another day. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All parents who bring their children in for Karate lessons think it is a good character building activity, and they will receive good life skills training, otherwise they wouldn't be there in the first place.  The development of "life skills" are inherent in all martial arts training anyway, it's just that the better schools are able to highlight these things more along with the physical training to show more improvement in that area.  Also, parents understand about commitment for their young ones before they ever step foot in a Karate school.  Plus they are used to it!  do they expect that they can join a soccer team, t-ball, football, e.t.c. and just do it month to month?  of course not, they understand that the child once starting the activity should at least finish the season, or agreed time to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;participate&lt;/span&gt;.  Karate instructors also understand the commitment involved to be proficient in an art.  Most expect that the student will at some point (e.g. after a trial class, course, or some period of time) commit to the practice of the art.   So, if &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;everyones&lt;/span&gt; on the same page about that commitment is a good thing, whats the problem?  Why this article, and why a bad taste in so many people's mouths about signing contracts at karate schools?  I'll tell you why....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are two types of agreements that Karate schools use.  1.  A term based agreement or 2.  A goal based agreement.  90% of schools use a term based agreement.  Which &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;sais&lt;/span&gt; that you agree to sign up your child to a specific block of time for lessons.  Now the block of time that you sign up for differs by school of course.  The reason why "Term based agreements" are largely &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;ineffective&lt;/span&gt; is because most kids don't have a good &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;understanding&lt;/span&gt; of "Time".   Asking a 5 year old  student (that is really excited after taking a few Karate classes) if he wants to commit to a 3 year agreement, is ridiculous.  At this point, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;weather&lt;/span&gt; you told them it was for 2 years or 10 years would make no difference &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;because&lt;/span&gt; they just want to do it at that point in time, and that is that! &lt;br /&gt;A goal based agreement is a much better option.  The parent signs the child up for a "beginner program" which takes them through the first three belts &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;for&lt;/span&gt; their program (in my school it's orange).  This takes about 6 months so it is a much more &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;reasonable&lt;/span&gt; time frame to expect, but the great thing is that because young children are much better identifying colors then they are frames of time, they understand the goal they need to achieve.  They understand the order of the different color belts and know what colored belts they have to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;achieve&lt;/span&gt; before completing the program.    This way everybody wins.  The instructor and the parents teach the child about goal setting and follow through, and the parent does not get themselves in a financial nightmare and a 3 year fight with the child &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;everytime&lt;/span&gt; it is time to go to class.  Because I am a parent, martial artist, and school owner, I see all sides of this issue.   So, a school owner might "think" it is good business to lock people into long term agreements, but I don't think it is the "right thing" to do, and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;judging&lt;/span&gt; by the backlash in the community, it's not good business either.  I think using the Goal Based agreements is the way to go, and as I've heard so many times before...."doing the right thing "is" good business."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1078869745191263896-8317271167035236529?l=friedmankenpo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/feeds/8317271167035236529/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/05/karate-contractswhats-deal.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/8317271167035236529'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/8317271167035236529'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/05/karate-contractswhats-deal.html' title='Karate contracts....what&apos;s the deal?'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1078869745191263896.post-131380228927801264</id><published>2009-04-27T19:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-27T19:21:08.741-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Congrats to our new Junior Black Belts!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SfZn2Z56UvI/AAAAAAAAAAM/6cQjuDhyac8/s1600-h/DSCN0442.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329561393403941618" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SfZn2Z56UvI/AAAAAAAAAAM/6cQjuDhyac8/s320/DSCN0442.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Well, i'm pretty excited. Not just because i've now stepped into the technology age with "blogging". But this is my first blog ever, and i'm talking about Steven O'Neil and Eric Tangarife. These kids have been with me for a few years, and have been consistent in their training, good students, and just really good kids. they worked hard and tested April 25th for about 1 1/2 hours on their blocks, strikes, punches, kicks, stances, forms, sets, self defense techniques, sparring, e.t.c. from their 9-12 curriculum. Great job guys!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1078869745191263896-131380228927801264?l=friedmankenpo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/feeds/131380228927801264/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/04/congrats-to-our-new-junior-black-belts.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/131380228927801264'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1078869745191263896/posts/default/131380228927801264'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://friedmankenpo.blogspot.com/2009/04/congrats-to-our-new-junior-black-belts.html' title='Congrats to our new Junior Black Belts!'/><author><name>Mike Friedman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10096858462652923127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kJHMkKG2oZg/SfZn2Z56UvI/AAAAAAAAAAM/6cQjuDhyac8/s72-c/DSCN0442.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
